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cheerful, while others become irritable and grumpy? This is basically due to the attitude decided upon, whether consciously or unconsciously. Abraham Lincoln said: “People are about as happy as they have made up their minds to be.” In other words, cheerfulness can be a conscious decision, and we need not be forever imprisoned by a grumpy attitude that we have acquired since childhood. This capacity to change oneself is a self-transformative capacity. It is a conscious decision or intention, not an accident. A person can decide to be cheerful even if things are not as smooth as one would wish to be; he can be positive even if there are obstacles encountered. An unhappy teacher will find it hard to be effective. The mind and feelings will tend to be self-absorbed rather than oriented towards the students that he or she seeks to help. An effective teacher is one who finds meaning in what he or she is doing. There |
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is a sense of mission. Even when one has personal problems or difficulties, there is still a feeling of happiness in teaching. Loving Love is a genuine concern for the welfare of the other person — in this context, the student. Without this, teaching becomes just a job for a salary. Then it will not be a fulfilling career. Teaching is a vocation, a mission. It is to help transform and educate young minds and young souls. Loving these children means that we tend not to be self-absorbed about our own needs and demands, but rather seeks to understand the needs and problems of the child. When a child is disrespectful towards us, we see it not as an insult to us, but rather as a personality or character problem in the child. |